Relieving Financial Stress July 3, 2008
Posted by BDO in Spiritual.Tags: beating, bible, christian, Debt, feelings, financial, proverbs, rich, slavery, stress, worry
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Do not wear yourself out to get rich; have the wisdom to show restraint.
We read many stories of people racing after riches and ending up poor. For example, many lottery winners are expecting all dreams to come true. However, in reality, most are worse off than before their 15 minutes of fame.[1] Research also shows that over half of all employees are dissatisfied with their personal financial situation. [2] This dissatisfaction causes stress that can lead to loss of sleep, less money for self-care, and unhealthy emotions.[3]
Why do we do it? Why do we lose sleep over getting wealthy? Two answers: GREED and SELFISHNESS. These two reasons are exactly why the Bible pleads with us to have the wisdom to not wear ourselves out in trying to get rich. The Bible also states,
“But those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a snare and many foolish and harmful desires which plunge men into ruin and destruction.” 1 Timothy 6:9
Now don’t misunderstand the Bible; it is not only addressing those of us who seek riches through the lottery, buying/selling stocks, or working hard at their job to make a buck. Proverbs 23:4 also talks to those who wear themselves out trying to look rich.[4]
“One man pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth.” Proverbs 13:7
This verse looks at the hypocrisy of man. It shows us how we try to deceive others, and maybe ourselves, to gain honor. Sadly, this honor is only in the sight of man. This drive to reach the title of “rich” in man’s eyes is not the goal of one who is working to beat debt. Remember,
“Rich and poor have this in common: The Lord is the Maker of them all.” Proverbs 22:2
Since God is in control of the rich and the poor, don’t worry about who He chooses to be rich or poor. Stop wearing yourself out trying to be or look “rich.” Commit to beating debt and live life within your means, being satisfied with how the Lord blesses you.
Discussion Questions:
1. Have you tried to purchase something to make you look better or richer than what you really are?
2. How did that purchase make you feel? How do you feel about that purchase now?
3. What things in our lives are making us look rich, when in reality we are deep in debt?
4. What action steps can we take to lessen the financial stress we have in our lives?
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When beggars and shoeshine boys, barbers and beauticians can tell you how to get rich it is time to remind yourself that there is no more dangerous illusion than the belief that one can get something for nothing.
-Bernard Baruch, 1929
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1. Yes, I have. That’s what makeup and name brand clothes ads try to convince me of every day! Sometimes, they succeed (unfortunately for my wallet and budget).
2. The name brand purchase was a mistake. The item didn’t fit or last the way I hoped it would. I still use the makeup, which is good, but I should have bought a “regular” brand instead of a fancy one.
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4. Be satisfied with living within my means! It’s much more important to me to know that I’ll be able to support myself when I retire than to live a luxurious lifestyle now. With some (or a lot of) discipline, I can do things now to make sure that I can do nice things when I’m older.
I use the enJOY Freedom from Financial Stress weekly tips to encourage me to stay within my budget.
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